

I've been wanting to spend time with Jack after all the business of sewing and preparing for Christmas.
Monday we went on a nice long hike in the woods near our home and yesterday we went back down into the park for a very different purpose.
We followed the railroad tracks into old Ellicott City to get a bite to eat but mostly to collect coal.
There are many trains that still run along the Patapsco River along the B&O Railroad (the first ever rail line in the U.S.). Ellicott City has a great little railroad museum which is worth a look if you ever come this way.
Well, our job was to collect as much coal as we could to burn in the firepit for New Year's Eve. It seems a good enough activity for Jack and his Texas cousin who are both 12 years old. A treasure hunt, of sorts, followed by the promise of playing with fire. Just a 21st century Mom looking for creative ways to get these boys unplugged from electronic devices. Though the iPod did come along, by the middle of the hike, it was out of his ears...success!
We did learn that the kids had much better eyesight than us older folks when it came to spotting the coal. Can you find it in this picture?
We were lucky enough to have a train come by as we were walking along.
I don't care how old you are, it's still exciting to be that close to a big, powerful train that's motoring along.
I don't have a picture of our hoard but it was substantial. It should be quite the blaze this evening when we burn it. Anybody ever burned coal? This is a new one fore us!
We've collected coal a few other times so my brother John made coal buckets out of old cans for the kids.
I carried Jack's bucket today since it wasn't big enough for the amount of coal he was able to find. I just think it looks cute. Jack just rolls his eyes at that one...
Last night, Jack was going to his first girl-boy party.
So, while Jack struggled to figure out the opposite sex, Jim and I decided to take a walk down Main Street in Old Ellicott City which is the town right near our home. All the stores were closed but it was fun peeking in the windows...
I was particularly fond of these two handmade ladies...
When we finally picked up Jack, he was all wound up. It turns out we weren't the only ones window shopping. It turns out that he sat with groups of girls throughout the night -- but he didn't say anything. He was listening though... Here's some of what he said...
"Mom, I'm really proud of myself. I've really gotten better...this time, I could actually sit with a group of girls and be around them!"
"It was really easy. They all just start talking...I didn't have to do anything."
"Girls talk way different than boys. I was sitting out by the firepit, which was good, because all these girls came and sat around and started talking. That was a lot of work Mom. They talk way different than boys...I mean, a boy says something at lunch and everybody listens or...we interrupt...BUT there's usually only one guy talking at at time. Girls are all talking at once and there was like 5 different conversations going on..." Jack hangs his head, shaking it back and forth in disbelief.
Me: "Jack, did you actually talk to any girls?"
"Yeah, one girl asked me my name, how old I was, what grade I was in, where I go to school..."
"Well, did you ask her anything about herself?"
"God Mom, I was afraid I was going to say something and mess it up and she would think I'm stupid."
"Well, Jack, let me tell you a secret about girls. We love a guy even more when we can tell he's nervous but tries to talk to us. Girls happen to be more empathetic than boys and they're likely to sense your uneasiness and try to make you more comfortable. Give it a try. The problem with not saying anything at all...it makes them think you're not interested in them at all so then they get self-conscious and then you're both standing there being self-conscious..."
"Oh yeah, Mom, and then nobody says anything...which is death. It says that in the Dangerous Book for Boys...But I really think I did better this time. Yup, I'm getting better..."
"Good night, Jack."
"Ok, yeah, good night...but Mom I'm warnin' ya...I'm gonna probably be talking about this for days!"
I hope he figures it out or, at least, some girl figures him out...that might be easier.
As for me, Santa has put me in the Remedial Program for Procrastinating Elves. I'm happy to say that it's working but I can't show you what I'm making this week because they're surprises for Christmas day...
Stay tuned for the week after Christmas when I promise to show a Parade of Presents -- one each day. Until then, maybe I can squeeze in a sneak peak or two.
On another note, I completely lost my email inbox history on Friday...if you emailed me anytime Wednesday, Thursday or Friday, I'm likely not to have received what you sent so please resend if it's important!
Back to the workshop...